Blog break, because of birth of #2

I will probably be taking a break from this blog for a little while. I was hoping to finish it before Minna was born, but she came 5 weeks early, so I wasn't prepared. You can read all about Minna on my main blog, http://brianandkaraleenixfamily.blogspot.com/, but I learned a few things from her birth, that pertain to Joshua's infancy.

1-Developing in the womb, really is best for the baby. While this may seem like a duh, I was so amazed at how much more advanced Minna was at 35 weeks than Joshua was at 37 1/2 weeks when he went home. She could breath without any oxygen, and after the first day ate really well. So much easier so far I can only imagine what it would be like to have a term baby.

2- The reason the nurses at Joshua's birth thought I wasn't in labor is because during an abruption the uterus clamps up and doesn't release. The monitor looks for changes in the uterus, but since there isn't any change, it looks like there are no contractions. Minna's labor was a lot easier on me, I loved the breaks in between the contractions during her birth. So much easier.

3- I was talking to my dad and later Brian about how in our hospital room there were two Code Blue buttons. Both of them mentioned that there was a Code Blue alert for Joshua when he was born. I wondered how they were able to assemble all those nurses so quickly. Anyway I think that is pretty cool that he had the Code Blue Alert going throughout the whole hospital since everything turned out okay. Not everyone can say that happened to them.

That is all for now, I hope to keep working on this, but it will probably be a little while, since I have lots of other blogging to do, let alone trying to keep up with two kids and maybe sleep occasionally.

May 23, 2008 First Clothes

Two years ago today Joshua got to wear clothes for the first time. I didn't know that he was going to be able to wear clothes in the NICU until like two days before his picc line came out. One nurse mentioned that Joshua could wear clothes as soon as his IVs were out, so I made a mad dash to Wal-Mart because they carry a preemie line.

Here Joshua is sporting his first outfit.

The nurses loved the snaps because it was so easy to dress him over the oxygen tubing and monitors.

It was really fun to be able to start getting clothes for him.

May 22, 2008 No More IVs

When they started Joshua on feedings he was still on IVs for most of his nutrition. As they gradually added volume to his feedings they would reduce the amount of IV nutrition. As they gave him more milk he would gain weight faster, the babies hardly gain any weight on IVs as compared to milk.

The amount of milk he got was based on his weight and how well he has done with his previous feedings. Once he got to the point he was able to get all of his nutrition from milk they were able to take his IVs out! It made it easier to hold him because we didn't have to watch out for the IV/Picc line and worry about dislodging it. It was also wonderful to achieve this milestone and to know he can handle and do well on just milk. He still was taking all of his feedings through the feeding tube at this point. He was not quite old enough to begin trying to nurse.

We took some really cute pictures of Joshua this day, here are some of them.

Eyeing the world

Checking out whats going on

Just happy to be here

Just plain cute

May 16, 2008 BBG

One evening Brian and I went to the NICU to visit Joshua. He was working really hard to breath. We called the nurse over to look at him, and she agreed that he was breathing funny. The NICU has a respiratory therapist and the nurse found him. He looked at Joshua for a minute and decided that he was all stuffy. Instead of using one of the awful blue bulb things, he used a Baby Booger Grabber or a BBG. It was super cool, it was motorized and suctioned everything out and was less harsh on his nose that the bulbs. I wish you could buy them.

And here is a picture of Joshua on that day.

Joshua's Personality

Anyone who knows Joshua well knows that he is fairly outgoing and quite the ham. He was like this even in the NICU. He would smile pretty much from the beginning. Most of these pictures were taken when Joshua was only 10 days old.

We got him this bib that says "Its the Smile that keeps me out of Trouble", because he was so grinny.

Joshua would cause trouble though. One day we got to the NICU and the baby next to Joshua was crying. The nurse said that Joshua would cry just long enough to get the other baby to cry, then he would stop crying. I guess they were going on and off like that all morning. The nurse was glad when we showed up and the other baby's mom showed up so both of the babies settled down.

His nurse took these pictures one night because he was being such a ham. Please ignore the fact he has a dirty face and old tape on, I thought they still came out adorable.

And my favorite picture

Cords, Tubes, Monitors ect

I thought I should take a post to explain the cords and tubes and monitors that were hooked up to Joshua throughout his NICU stay.

In this picture there is Joshua's NICU label which identifies Joshua the same way the hospital wrist bands do. It matches our wristbands for him. -Side note: We thought we had to have our wrist bands to take Joshua home, so we wore them religiously, but after about a month they wore out and fell off. When we brought them in for a replacement, the nurses told us they definitely didn't expect us to wear them until Joshua came home, that a driver's license would be fine if there was any question.

The line coming out of his diaper and down to the left is a IV line that is attached in his umbilical. When that line went bad they put in a normal IV in his hand for a couple of days then they put in a picc line. I was at the hospital with my mom the first time they tried to put in the picc line. It was horrible, they tried for like 15 minutes and I could hear Joshua fussing, but they wouldn't let me near him because the whole area had to be sanitary. Then they failed to get it in. I was about ready to bawl for him, since he was just whimpering. They said they would try again that night. I told them great, but it has to be done before I came back the next morning. The next morning it was in and I guess it went in really easy and he didn't even fuss. He had this in until he moved to full feedings from milk.

The other cord coming out of his diaper is a temperature sensor. It would get loose periodically so we would take his temperature manually. One nurse couldn't get it on right so she covered the poor kid in tape to try to keep it in place. Then it wouldn't even work, so a couple of days later they had to peel all the tape off of his baby skin. So sad. He didn't have to wear this the whole time. I don't remember how long he wore it for though.

The rest of the cords coming off his chest monitor his breathing and heart rate. He wore these to make sure he didn't have apnea or bradicardia. He wore these the whole time he was in the NICU.

In this picture there is a pulse monitor on his foot. I was eventually able to put this on myself, but not quickly. Joshua wore the pulse monitor the whole time he was in the NICU. On his face you can see his oxygen cannula, and the giant stickers that held it on. He wore that until almost the end of the NICU stay when he was able to breath without it. If you look close you can see his feeding tube that goes down his nose into his stomach. He got quite good at taking out the feeding tube, one day he took it out between every feeding. He had the feeding tube in the entire time he was in the NICU too.

My Non Cuddly Boy

We were allowed to hold Joshua twice a day. I would hold him for 45 minutes to an hour in the morning and Brian would hold him for 30 to 45 minutes in the evenings. Most preemies will breath better when they are held by their parents and can have their oxygen turned down. Joshua would usually need to have his oxygen turned up. If we held him too long he would de-sat his oxygen. Sometimes holding him would be stressful, but we kept it up so we could bond with him.

One day I had held Joshua for about 45 minutes and the nurse came by and said she needed to go somewhere for 10-15 minutes and asked me if I wanted to put him back in the bed now, or when she came back. I told her I would wait until until she came back. 15 minutes went by and she wasn't back. Another 15 minutes went by and I started looking outside for another nurse to put Joshua back (we weren't allowed to stand up or move with the babies when they had IVs in them) After another 15 minutes I was able to grab a neonatalogist who put Joshua back.

That night when Brian came to hold Joshua, Joshua fell apart. A preemie doesn't fall apart like a normal baby does by screaming, they do it by breathing poorly. So after a few minutes we asked the nurse to put him back. She said he needed a bath that night and asked if we wanted to help. We did of course and proceeded to help give him a cotton ball bath (more on bathes later) He still was acting really tired, so we were trying to hurry. My parents stopped by to see Joshua not realizing that we would be there. We had to ask them to leave because Joshua was so stressed out.

The next couple of days we were very careful with Joshua and would only hold him for about 30 minutes at a time. Even after he got older and could handle the stress of being held better, we would still have to be sure to leave when we were done holding him, because having us in the room would make Joshua unable to sleep. When he came home he slept in his own room, but once or twice he woke up in the morning and we tried to put him in bed with us. He never could sleep in bed with us. He would get all wound up and want to play with us. Once in South Carolina Joshua woke up and I brought him to bed with Brian and me. Joshua started to cry and wouldn't settle down until I put him back in his pack n play where he quickly went back to sleep. We have let him sleep in his own bed since then.